Message from Adam Berman, President of Chelsea Jewish Lifecare

December 14, 2021

Dear Residents and Families,

As we approach the December holidays, it’s clear that the festivities look different than in past years. The uncertainty around the variant is making us extra cautious this holiday season. However, there are many reasons to feel optimistic that we’re finally turning a corner.

While we may never be “free” of COVID, we’ve grown better at living with it. Our residents, families and staff have found ways to celebrate and enjoy life while also remaining diligent. This is a testament to your resilience, zest for living, and enthusiasm. I am proud of your actions and truly grateful for your support.

Wishing everyone a wonderful holiday season and looking forward to better days ahead. Here’s to a happy, healthy, and safe 2022!

Warm regards,
Adam

Adam Berman
President 
Chelsea Jewish Lifecare

Celebrating five centenarians, all ‘young at heart’ – The Boston Globe

December 20, 2021

Ranging in age from 100 to 107, these Peabody assisted living residents show they are ‘Young at Heart’

Read this story by Cindy Cantrell in The Boston Globe.

With the number of centenarians at less than 1 percent of the American population, it is rare to attend a party for an individual celebrating 100 years of age or more.

Never mind five of them.

But that’s exactly what occurred last month, when the Harriett and Ralph Kaplan Estates in Peabody honored five assisted-living residents in its so-called Century Club: Thelma Taylor, 100; Marty Lawson, 101; Leo Ditchek, 101; Kay Morrocco, 101; and Rose Regis, 107.

According to Ellen Gordon, Kaplan’s director of resident life, it was the largest celebration of centenarian residents to date at the assisted living community operated by nonprofit Chelsea Jewish Lifecare. She said the five individuals, who participate in daily recreational and social activities, are proof that the aging process can be one of grace, dignity, and humor.

“Each one of them has something to teach us,” she said. “They’re wonderful.”

At the party, the guests of honor were seated at a circular table in the center of the room, surrounded by approximately 35 of their fellow residents and staff members. Each honoree wore a special pin and either a tiara or bow tie because, as Gordon said, “You are always ladies and gentlemen.”

As guests enjoyed hors d’oeuvres and birthday cake, Gordon paid tribute to each honoree: Taylor for staying socially engaged and exercising daily; Lawson for appreciating every generation, including the children with whom he volunteered at the onsite preschool before the pandemic; Ditchek for keeping up with current events while maintaining his trademark sense of humor; Morrocco for giving back through volunteering; and Regis for living on her own terms.

Gordon then led a toast of champagne and sparkling apple cider. As the roomful of neighbors, friends, and caregivers raised their glasses, she said, “God bless you, and let all of us in this room take lessons from the five of them on how to live our lives well. To you!”

In between congratulations from well-wishers, Ditchek said he was as surprised as anyone when he turned 101 on Feb 28. A native New Yorker and World War II veteran, he moved to Kaplan Estates several years ago to be closer to family in Ipswich.

“I had been living on my own and not eating that well,” said Ditchek, who has enthusiastically maintained his CNN viewing habit at the assisted living facility. “All the food here is very good.”

In fact, Ditchek said he was particularly pleased to be celebrating alongside Lawson, with whom he eats all three meals.

“Marty is a good man,” Ditchek said. “I’m honored to be next to him.”

“And I’m honored to be here with him,’’ said Lawson, a retired businessman who turned 101 on Nov. 9. “I never dreamed I’d be 100. I thought 75 would be my limit. I think it’s very appropriate to bring attention to people who have reached 100 years and more. And I appreciate it.”

Taylor, who became a centenarian on March 10, worked in retail and office administration until she was 85. At Kaplan Estates, she enjoys all the daily activities, including arts and crafts, current events, and exercise classes.

“I’m lucky. It’s nice to be with people and keep busy — especially at this age,” she said.

“It’s wonderful to get together and see so many of us still active,” added Morrocco, a retired bookkeeper and avid ballroom dancer turned card shark who celebrated her 101st birthday on Aug. 10. The previous year, her friends from the Peabody Senior Center, where she volunteered for nearly 30 years, arrived in a van adorned with Morrocco’s picture to celebrate with her at Kaplan Estates.

Asked for her secret to longevity, Morrocco replied, “Good Italian genes!”

“You can either do something or sit around. I’d rather have a duty,” she added, joking that as a child, 100 years old “sounded like 1,000. And now I am that old. Older, actually!”

Pianist Bill Sokolow of Marblehead concluded the party with a rendition of “Young at Heart,” after which he drew laughs and cheers for congratulating Regis on surpassing the age in the song lyric “And if you should survive to a 105/Look at all you’ll derive out of being alive.”

“You beat the song by two years!” he told a smiling Regis.

As the honorees accepted balloons and plants to bring back to their apartments, Morrocco took a last look around.

“The party was amazing,” she said. “I’m very grateful that I’ve been given this time to enjoy.”

Cindy Cantrell may be reached at cindycantrell20@gmail.com.

Behind the Scenes at Brudnick Center for Living

December 10, 2021

Residents and staff enjoyed the many Hanukkah festivities this year, especially the delicious potato latkes and sufganiot (jelly donuts) for the party on December 2. Talented accordionist Eddie Morando led the group with lively holiday musical selections. Each household at the Brudnick Center displayed its own menorah, adding a candle for each of the eight nights. The menorahs spread light and hope throughout the residence.

Our “Holiday Mitzvah” project is a beloved tradition at the Brudnick Center. Many of our residents made colorful yarn dolls to donate to “Citizen’s Inn,” a local shelter dedicated to helping families and individuals who are experiencing a housing crisis or food insecurity. The children living in the shelter can use these adorable dolls to decorate their rooms.

Coming up on the horizon: Deb Eskenazi will visit BCL at the end of the month to hold her popular “Floral Arranging” class. Residents always come up with very creative and visually appealing designs. They will be the perfect pieces to display throughout the residence on New Year’s Eve!

Take a Look at What’s Happening at Kaplan Estates

December 9, 2021

Residents enjoyed a very warm and festive Hanukkah celebration with live entertainment from pianist Bill Sokolow, savory potato latkes and delicious jelly donuts. It was fun to hear everyone reminiscing about their holidays growing up!

“Better Together,” our monthly program via zoom with the students from Shirat Hayam High School, is in full swing. Residents and students participate in Shabbat services together and the group has just initiated a new pen pal program to further communicate with each other. The program is a perfect example of our award-winning intergenerational programming.

To celebrate the meaning of the holiday season, residents are embarking upon a “Holiday Mitzvah” project. Activities include dispensing greeting cards and writing letters to active military men and women. It’s a terrific way to pay tribute those dedicated individuals who serve our country so bravely.

Our annual New Year’s Eve party promises to be a fun-filled event. This year the party will be hosted Steve O’Connell, who is a talented North Shore musician and accomplished in organizing group sing-a-longs. Here’s to a happy, healthy, and safe 2022!

Three New Sites Chosen for Innovative TNA Program

December 6, 2021

Our Chelsea, Longmeadow and West Roxbury campuses have been approved as Temporary Nurse Aid (TNA) training sites, which is very exciting news. We will be able to train new groups of TNA’s and prepare them to take the Certified Nursing Assistant (CNA) certification. Essentially the TNA program allows individuals interested in becoming a CNA the opportunity to work alongside a certified nurse assistant. At the same time, they participate in online training so they will be qualified to take the state certification exam.

“We are thrilled to have received approval of these three TNA training sites,” said Terry Halliday, Chief Business Development Officer for Chelsea Jewish Lifecare and JGS Lifecare. “For some of our employees, this program provides an entree into the healthcare system.” Halliday added, “We recognize the fact that the course is costly to take on one’s own and are pleased to offer this benefit to those who embark upon this program.”

The TNA program is an excellent steppingstone for individuals desiring to work in a skilled nursing facility but have not yet been certified. Consisting of online class work, skills laboratory work and onsite clinical practical experience, the program offers hands-on, person centered care as part of a nursing team.

To date, our TNA program has met with huge success. We have already had 25 TNA graduates this year alone and more classes are in progress! With the recent approval of the TNA program on all three campuses, we will be able to train a greater number of people and offer employment opportunities to individuals who prove to be the right fit for our organization.

The Department of Health has acknowledged the benefits of a TNA program like ours in bringing in new CNA’s into the industry. Noted Halliday, “Our program serves as a model to skilled nursing facilities not only across Massachusetts, but throughout the country. In short, we are helping employees enter the nursing profession.”

‘I served my country for good reasons’

November 22, 2021

As seen in the Jewish Journal, written by Ethan M. Forman.

PEABODY – “I was a soldier and no matter what they told me, I did,” said centenarian Leon “Leo” Ditchek about what his service in the Army as a field medic during World War II meant to him this Veterans Day.

“No question,” said the Jewish war veteran. “Whatever the training was, we went to it. And what did the service mean to me? I served my country for good reasons.”

The 101-year-old lives in a comfortable room surrounded by pictures of his family with a well-stocked bookshelf on the third floor of the Harriett and Ralph Kaplan Estates, an assisted living facility owned and operated by Chelsea Jewish Lifecare in Peabody.

“Leon is beloved by staff and residents alike,” said Ellen Gordon, director of resident life at Chelsea Jewish Lifecare. “I truly enjoy speaking with Leon about current events and timely issues. He’s quite the conversationalist and so well informed.”

A native of the Bronx, Ditchek turns 102 on Feb. 28. He recalled how he was drafted into the service, getting a letter from then President Franklin Delano Roosevelt on his 23rd birthday in 1943. The letter told him when to report to Penn Station in New York City.

Once there, he recalled going from one doctor to another as they checked his blood pressure and other vitals. If he failed those tests, he would have been deemed unfit for service. He passed.

“They asked me ‘Army, Navy, Marines’? I told them, ‘Army.’”

From there, he went to Fort Dix, N.J., and then to Fort Stewart, Ga., which was called Camp Stewart at the time, he said.

“I went through the training, different marches, 7, 15 miles, it was a whole bunch of training. I was designated to be a medic, a field medic,” Ditchek said. From there, he was sent to El Paso, Texas, where he trained with an eye toward being sent to Africa.

“But we defeated [German General Erwin] Rommel over there and they didn’t need me over there,” he said. “So, it was one training after another training.”

He was finally sent overseas to the Pacific. From Camp Shelby in Hattiesburg, Miss., he boarded a train to Puget Sound in Washington State. There, he boarded a cargo ship that took him to Oahu, Hawaii, where he was housed in the Schofield Barracks Army Base.

“And to me, that was the best thing that could happen, because up until then I was always sleeping on the ground,” Ditchek said. “Now, I got a cot, a house …

“But, then they dropped the two bombs on [Japan],” Ditchek said, referring to the U.S. dropping two atomic bombs on Japan, one on Hiroshima and another on Nagasaki a few days later, which hastened the end of the war. “I hung around for a couple of months, and then came back to Fort Dix.”

“I was in the service three years,” he said. “I never saw any combat.” He served until March 1946 and was discharged with the rank of corporal.

He went back to the Bronx and met up with his friends who had also served in the military.

He met Libby Rimland, and they got married in 1947. The couple were married for 61 years. Ditchek worked in sales and later as a truck driver in Manhattan. He retired at age 58 and he and his wife moved to Sunrise and Tamarac, Fla., and later to Midland Park, N.J.

He has been living at Kaplan Estates for about six years. He went to live there to be close to his son and daughter-in-law, who live in Ipswich. Ditchek is the father of four; two sons and two daughters. He also has seven grandchildren and several great-grandchildren.

Being Jewish in the service mattered, Ditchek said.

While serving in Georgia, he recalled “It was boys from up north like New Jersey, New York, and then the boys from the South, and both in the same outfit. So, one of them went over and was feeling the back of my head. And, I said, ‘What are you doing?’ and he said, ‘I’m checking to see your horns.’ Yeah. And they believed it! Unbelievable.”

Ditchek said he is very lucky to live such a long life. He doesn’t have dementia or Alzheimer’s, he said. He quit smoking two packs a day when he was 40.

“I’m lucky,” he said of having reached 101.

To mark Veterans Day on Nov. 11, Deutsches Altenheim, an assisted living and skilled nursing facility in West Roxbury operated by Legacy Lifecare and affiliated with Chelsea Jewish Lifecare, will host a celebration with a distribution of poppies to all residents and a discussion about the historical perspective of Veterans Day with Sandy Finder, the nonprofit’s historical affairs program leader. There will be a video tribute from Deutsches Altenheim leaders and Boston officials. The a cappella group the Latonics from Roxbury Latin will perform the national anthem.