Message from Megin Hemmerling, Regional President

October 15, 2023

Dear Residents and Families,

Hope you enjoying the beautiful weather as fall hits its peak. It was the perfect backdrop for celebrating the festive holiday of Sukkot. This year we were excited to have the Congregation Sons of Israel join us in Peabody for the holiday festivities. Please take a look at the photos of the striking sukkahs that were carefully assembled on our campuses.

Congratulations to the Leonard Florence Center for Living! The residence was selected as a winner of the Program Innovation Annual Achievement Award by LeadingAge of Massachusetts. The award was given for the Outward Bound program which provides programming and outings for the residents who live there. You can read all about it elsewhere in this newsletter. Thank you to everyone involved who makes this special program happen.

I’d like to extend a big thank you to everyone who made the 2023 Annual ALS & MS Walk for Living such a huge success. It was a wonderful day enjoyed by all.

Our hearts go out to everyone involved in the Middle East crisis. We pray for peace.

All the best,

Megin

Behind the Scenes on Our Peabody Campus

October 12, 2023

Residents, families, and staff celebrated Shmini Artzeret (the last day of Sukkot and Simchat Torah) with our congregation joining together with Sons of Israel. Since the holiday fell on Shabbat, everyone joined together for a festive Kiddush lunch. Resident Howard Rosenblatt chanted the Torah portion. He did an amazing job!

All the residents celebrated the retirement of our beloved Activities Assistant Lynne McDonald, who is moving to NH. Music was provided by the Memory Laners, and  the residents, as retirees themselves, gave Lynne some sage advice on how to enjoy retirement! Overall, it was an afternoon filled with laughter and fun. Lynne, we will miss you!

Later in the month Bubbie’s Attic is back by popular demand. This event happens twice a year and enables residents and staff to enjoy a day of free shopping. It’s basically a giant yard sale where you never know what kind of treasure you will find! Staff members clean out their closets and cabinets, donating all goods to Bubbie’s Attic. Some residents also make donations. It’s fun to find things that are useful, whimsical, or one-of-a-kind.

Before Marketing Director Antonio Alvarez’s recent wedding, we hosted a wonderful pre-bridal event to wish the happy couple well. Amidst food, music and gifts, our residents were invited to write down their best advice for a successful marriage. We are looking forward to Antonio and Alyssa reading our list of “do’s and don’ts!”

As for the wedding itself, Antonio provided a glimpse into the magic of the day. “Despite the terrible weather forecast, everything on the day of the event was flawless, ”remarked Antonio. “The rain stopped, the clouds moved aside, and we had sun for the entire ceremony. We shared our self-written vows in front of 65 of our closest family and friends.” Added Antonio, “My favorite part, although there were many, was the reciting of our vows. That moment was unique, profoundly emotional, and sometimes even laugh-out-loud funny. It was actually perfect.”

Take a look at photos of the beautiful newly married husband and wife. Congratulations Antonio and Alyssa!

Get to Know Jimmy and Shellie Honohan!

October 11, 2023

Who do you call when you want to host a fun and successful event? Jimmy and Shellie Honohan! The dynamic husband and wife duo have been an integral part of the Chelsea Jewish Lifecare recreational team for over 20 years. Shellie Honohan, Activities Director at CJL, joined the organization in 2002, after getting her CNA certification at Bunker Hill Community College. (She still has the certificate!) When a position opened up in the Activities Department, Shellie accepted it and hasn’t looked back since.

Jimmy, who early in his career managed grocery stores and warehouses and owned an ice cream truck business with Shellie, also drove oil and trailer trucks. In fact, he was driving an oil truck one day in 2006 when Shellie called to tell him she had “volunteered” his services as the sole entertainer at a Florence & Chafetz tea party. Jimmy remembers his surprise. “At the time, I was in a band but had never played solo,” recalled Jimmy. “I was petrified!” Not surprisingly, the residents and staff loved listening to him and and on May 15th, 2007, Jimmy became a Chelsea Jewish Lifecare employee.

For the first three years Jimmy worked as an activity assistant, driving the bus, and overseeing activities, while also driving an oil truck in the fall and winter. He vividly recalls the phone call that changed the course of his career. Mr. Berman called to ask him: “What will happen to my residents if you get hurt driving an oil truck?” Jimmy admitted he had never thought about it. The rest, as they say, is history.

The couple, who went to their senior prom together, got married on February 4, 1978, right before one of the biggest blizzards ever hit New England. Both Jimmy and Shellie are originally from Charlestown and lived there for twelve years. They settled in a house near the ocean in Revere, where they raised two sons and now have two grandsons. Tragically, they lost a grandson, who was diagnosed with a rare genetic disorder, when he was only 4 ½ years old.

How does a couple married for 45 years manage to work together day in and day out? According to Shellie, they both have a strong work ethic, which helps to put things into perspective. “Neither of us shy away from doing what has to be done,” remarked Shellie. “We see the results of our efforts by the feedback we get from the residents. All in all, we make a very good team!”

Coming up with activities takes a lot of creativity as well as attention to detail. Bingo is a must (everyone loves bingo!) as are trivia games. Daily physical exercise is crucial. They also incorporate bowling, beading, restaurant trips, book club, beach outings, sightseeing tours and more. Most importantly, they are open to new ideas. As Shellie explains, “If a resident suggests an activity or outing, we talk about it and, if we think it can work, we try it. It’s a true collaboration.”

Not being Jewish, Shellie and Jimmy wanted to know more about the culture, so Shellie enrolled them in a six month Introduction to Judaism course,” explained Shellie. “It is usually the first step people take to convert to Judaism, and although we were not planning on becoming Jewish, we really wanted to understand as much as we could about the Jewish holidays, rituals, and traditions. The course helped us to bring the true essence of the holidays to our Jewish residents as well as help our non-Jewish residents understand the meaning of the holidays.”

Jimmy and Shellie feel lucky to be part of the Chelsea Jewish family. “Shellie and I have worked at a good number of jobs over our lifetime but have never worked for people who care as much as Mr. Berman, Adam Berman, and Mrs. Mullen,” said Jimmy. “They inspire us every single day.” Jimmy also applauded the CJL staff. “Shellie and I work alongside some of the most compassionate people I have ever met,” stated Jimmy. “The staff are never afraid of taking on big projects. They lead with their hearts. We feel so very grateful to be a part of this organization.”

When asked about what the couple liked best about working at Chelsea Jewish Lifecare, Jimmy was quick to respond. “The happiness we bring to our residents fills our hearts daily,” enthused Jimmy. Added Shellie, “We love the fact that we are able to make a profound difference in the quality of life for our residents.” Thank you, Shellie and Jimmy Honohan, for making all of our lives so much better!

Celebrating the Fall Harvest During the Seven Days of Sukkot

October 5, 2023

Sukkot, one of the happiest Jewish holidays, tells the story of how the Jewish people survived while traveling through the desert on their way to the promised land. This year, Sukkot celebrations at CJL were enhanced by the spectacular Sukkah in Chelsea and Peabody. The sukkah, a temporary walled structure where people spend time during the holiday, is often thought of as a “home away from home.”

Essentially the sukkah is a hut built to provide shade. That’s why it must sit beneath the open sky—not under a patio deck or even the branches of a tree. The walls can be made of any material, as long as they are secure and don’t flap about in the wind. The roof, however, called it s’chach, must be made of unprocessed materials which have grown from the ground and when secured to the hut the roof must have a weave that allows you to see through to the sky. Sukkot also includes waving a lulav, a closed frond from a date palm, while holding an etrog, a yellow citron.

Ellen Gordon, Director of Residential Life at Chelsea Jewish Lifecare, noted that residents, staff, and families were excited to have a new Sukkah built on the Peabody campus. “We were in need of replacing our much beloved, 30-plus year-old sukkah,” explained Ellen. “Actually, our old sukkah was a ‘shundah’ as my mother would have said. This year we replaced it with a big, beautiful new one!”

Ellen and her staff erected the much larger sukkah to accommodate a combination of residents, the children of the NSJCC Preschool, as well as welcoming the congregants of Sons of Israel, all who have contributed to the decorating of the sukkah. As Ellen noted, “There was a wonderful sense of camaraderie as the sukkah was being decorated, which resulted in a delightful communal vibe!”

At the Leonard Florence Center in Chelsea, the Maintenance Department’s Amando Alacon and David O’Conner, both CJL employees for over 30 years, built quite an impressive sukkah. The Activities Staff’s Shellie Honohan and Cathie Mesina decorated it. Residents, particularly Edith, Virginia, and Rita, also helped with the decorations. Rabbi Sruli Baron from the Tobin Bridge Chabad discussed the importance of the fall holidays and the various celebrations with staff members.

“I always enjoy watching the residents shake the lulav and the etrog,” remarked Jimmy Honohan, Recreational Programming Director at Chelsea Jewish Lifecare. “The Sukkah brings back cherished memories for our Jewish residents while creating new ones for others. The Sukkah is such a beautiful symbol of dedication, harvest, and autumn.”

Over at the Katzman Family Center for Living, the holiday was a time to reminisce about the residents’ past years. Roy Roldan, Activities Director at KCL, noted that residents spoke about Sukkot with a smile on their faces. “Many of our residents discussed the fact that Sukkot is a true family affair,” explained Roldan. “They remembered everyone working together to assemble the sukkah, cutting down branches and leaves. The residents all agreed that leaving sweets on the table to usher in a ‘sweet’ new year was a beloved tradition.” Rabb Sruli Baron, Gilda Richman, residents, and staff were on hand to mark the start of the holiday, along with Sidney Zimmerman, who led the uplifting services.

Sukkot serves as a reminder of what’s important in life. Jimmy Honohan summed it up perfectly. “Residents visit the Sukkah to enjoy an activity, meditate, sing, pray, read, eat, or just rejoice in the beauty of the fall season. It really is a special place.”